This is another post on evidence given to the House of Lords Select Committee on the Mental Capacity Act 2005 from people with experience of having decisions made on their behalf under the MCA. I'm afraid I haven't yet finished reading the volumes of evidence from the Committee, so I apologise for not spotting this sooner. It was brought to my attention that the Committee has been on another visit - reported in the first volume of evidence (p647) - to meet people with dementia and talk to them about the MCA. The meeting was hosted by The Forget Me Nots, a group of people with dementia from the area of East Kent, who meet regularly in Canterbury.
In their visit to the Forget Me Nots, people with dementia talked about their changing experiences of making decisions. One person said 'It’s like the door is slowly shutting'. Some people's comments suggested they were content for their loved ones to make some decisions - 'I was the main decision-maker … but now my wife can think it out better than I can' - and some expressed feeling more 'fragile' and wanting to be protected. However, other people's views on other people making decisions were less positive, one person said, 'My wife has made decisions for me … it doesn’t feel good. I want to make decisions'.
In their visit to the Forget Me Nots, people with dementia talked about their changing experiences of making decisions. One person said 'It’s like the door is slowly shutting'. Some people's comments suggested they were content for their loved ones to make some decisions - 'I was the main decision-maker … but now my wife can think it out better than I can' - and some expressed feeling more 'fragile' and wanting to be protected. However, other people's views on other people making decisions were less positive, one person said, 'My wife has made decisions for me … it doesn’t feel good. I want to make decisions'.
